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		<title>Comment on Basic Rules For Men In Marriage by Tattoo Removal</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/family/basic-rules-for-men-in-marriage#comment-1319</link>
		<dc:creator>Tattoo Removal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Sep 2010 14:58:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Basic Rules For Women In Marriage by DA</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/family/basic-rules-for-women-in-marriage#comment-1318</link>
		<dc:creator>DA</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Sep 2010 01:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rodger,
	Thank you for your interest.
	It seems you did not read carefully my article nor my reply to Danielle. To understand and follow the logic coming from the Divine arrangement of &quot;one flesh&quot; and the product of &quot;one flesh&quot; (the offspring), there is far more involved than you are allowing. God&#039;s mandate to men and women in even &lt;em&gt;being&lt;/em&gt; &quot;one flesh&quot; is the responsibility that goes with it. Accountability is an absolute must! Follow the logic: You see, their &quot;one flesh&quot; produces an extension of their &quot;one flesh&quot; called &lt;em&gt;children&lt;/em&gt;, which is quite literally their own flesh. (I dare say your own parents have probably referred to you as &quot;&lt;em&gt;My own flesh and blood.&lt;/em&gt;&quot;). Once that extension comes into existence because of their union, they dare not ignore the extension of their own flesh which God charged them with! To fix on one another at the expense of the charge which God Himself put in their hands, is an offense to &lt;em&gt;Him&lt;/em&gt;! 
	There is no problem with the &quot;one flesh&quot; arrangement so long as the man and woman are mutually faithful to God in their cooperation toward their responsibility. The problem arises if either the man or the woman refuses to do their part in the arrangement. If you truly believe that in such cases it is right to &lt;em&gt;ignore&lt;/em&gt; the children and put your &lt;em&gt;failing&lt;/em&gt; spouse first, and if you fall into such an unfortunate situation, and should your children lose their souls because you put your failing spouse ahead of them, you will be in tremendous trouble on Judgment Day. Those innocent souls are your &lt;em&gt;first charge&lt;/em&gt;, not a husband or wife who &lt;em&gt;knows&lt;/em&gt; right from wrong, yet chooses to do the wrong. Remember, God&#039;s day of reckoning is not for &lt;em&gt;families&lt;/em&gt;, but individuals, one at a time. You will not stand there as a husband and wife, but as a single, responsible soul before your Creator.
	Again, as the article points out, until the offspring are born, the husband and wife must put one another first to prevent a lopsided marriage. Then, after the offspring leave the nest and make a life of their own with a mate (&quot;&lt;em&gt;They two shall be one flesh&lt;/em&gt;&quot;), the husband and wife must revert back to putting one another first.
	As to your point that the modern divorce rate is high, it is not high because husbands and wives have failed to put one another first, but because they are failing to put &lt;em&gt;God&lt;/em&gt; first in their marriage. Sadly, many youth of our society are quite barbaric because too often moms and dads are putting their &lt;em&gt;own&lt;/em&gt; selfish ambitions ahead of caring for their children. Perhaps you don&#039;t realize that such children can contribute greatly to the divorce rate. 
 	But I&#039;m not worried as to whether you understand this or not. If you truly love your offspring and the situation I described arises, I have no doubt your conscience will automatically drive you to putting your precious, innocent children first. Ask any loving mother. They simply cannot help themselves!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rodger,<br />
	Thank you for your interest.<br />
	It seems you did not read carefully my article nor my reply to Danielle. To understand and follow the logic coming from the Divine arrangement of &#8220;one flesh&#8221; and the product of &#8220;one flesh&#8221; (the offspring), there is far more involved than you are allowing. God&#8217;s mandate to men and women in even <em>being</em> &#8220;one flesh&#8221; is the responsibility that goes with it. Accountability is an absolute must! Follow the logic: You see, their &#8220;one flesh&#8221; produces an extension of their &#8220;one flesh&#8221; called <em>children</em>, which is quite literally their own flesh. (I dare say your own parents have probably referred to you as &#8220;<em>My own flesh and blood.</em>&#8220;). Once that extension comes into existence because of their union, they dare not ignore the extension of their own flesh which God charged them with! To fix on one another at the expense of the charge which God Himself put in their hands, is an offense to <em>Him</em>!<br />
	There is no problem with the &#8220;one flesh&#8221; arrangement so long as the man and woman are mutually faithful to God in their cooperation toward their responsibility. The problem arises if either the man or the woman refuses to do their part in the arrangement. If you truly believe that in such cases it is right to <em>ignore</em> the children and put your <em>failing</em> spouse first, and if you fall into such an unfortunate situation, and should your children lose their souls because you put your failing spouse ahead of them, you will be in tremendous trouble on Judgment Day. Those innocent souls are your <em>first charge</em>, not a husband or wife who <em>knows</em> right from wrong, yet chooses to do the wrong. Remember, God&#8217;s day of reckoning is not for <em>families</em>, but individuals, one at a time. You will not stand there as a husband and wife, but as a single, responsible soul before your Creator.<br />
	Again, as the article points out, until the offspring are born, the husband and wife must put one another first to prevent a lopsided marriage. Then, after the offspring leave the nest and make a life of their own with a mate (&#8220;<em>They two shall be one flesh</em>&#8220;), the husband and wife must revert back to putting one another first.<br />
	As to your point that the modern divorce rate is high, it is not high because husbands and wives have failed to put one another first, but because they are failing to put <em>God</em> first in their marriage. Sadly, many youth of our society are quite barbaric because too often moms and dads are putting their <em>own</em> selfish ambitions ahead of caring for their children. Perhaps you don&#8217;t realize that such children can contribute greatly to the divorce rate.<br />
 	But I&#8217;m not worried as to whether you understand this or not. If you truly love your offspring and the situation I described arises, I have no doubt your conscience will automatically drive you to putting your precious, innocent children first. Ask any loving mother. They simply cannot help themselves!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Basic Rules For Women In Marriage by Rodger Borchardt</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/family/basic-rules-for-women-in-marriage#comment-1288</link>
		<dc:creator>Rodger Borchardt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 17:44:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with Dannielle. God has called a man and wife to leave their father and mother and become &quot;one&quot; flesh. The bible never reffers to a father (or mother) and his son becoming one flesh. In fact when the child is at a certain age they are supposed to &quot;leave&quot; their father and mother (not their upbringing and values) but part of the bond between them and thier parents. And we as parents have to let go and let them be one with their spouse. The bible is very clear about this. We have this liberal veiw in society today that says that your children are more important than your spouse and that is one (of the many) reasons why the divorce rate is over half of the population. This is not an attack or argument everyone is entitled to their own opinion but our opinions do not matter. What matters is the word and the word says a man and his wife are &quot;one&quot; it never says that about parents and children.

Be blessed, 
Rodger</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with Dannielle. God has called a man and wife to leave their father and mother and become &#8220;one&#8221; flesh. The bible never reffers to a father (or mother) and his son becoming one flesh. In fact when the child is at a certain age they are supposed to &#8220;leave&#8221; their father and mother (not their upbringing and values) but part of the bond between them and thier parents. And we as parents have to let go and let them be one with their spouse. The bible is very clear about this. We have this liberal veiw in society today that says that your children are more important than your spouse and that is one (of the many) reasons why the divorce rate is over half of the population. This is not an attack or argument everyone is entitled to their own opinion but our opinions do not matter. What matters is the word and the word says a man and his wife are &#8220;one&#8221; it never says that about parents and children.</p>
<p>Be blessed,<br />
Rodger</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Secret of Ignorance by Trinette</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/christian-basics/the-secret-of-ignorance#comment-715</link>
		<dc:creator>Trinette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2010 01:38:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sitting here alone, just me and the computer, God, and your inspired words, I realize this means way more to me than the first time I heard it. I don&#039;t need a church to know God is speaking to me! These words are the difference between  death and life. Eternal Life! Everyone, no matter how rich, poor, smart, educated, famous, or not known by hardly anyone, had better ask their selves that question. Am I coming to the full knowledge of God? Do I really know him? I mean REALLY know him! Is He my heavenly Father or just someone I&#039;ve always been told about? Lord, help me to strive to be REAL in your sight! After all, in the end Lord, your the only one that really counts. Daddy, thank you for speaking perfect truth! I Love You!!!!!!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sitting here alone, just me and the computer, God, and your inspired words, I realize this means way more to me than the first time I heard it. I don&#8217;t need a church to know God is speaking to me! These words are the difference between  death and life. Eternal Life! Everyone, no matter how rich, poor, smart, educated, famous, or not known by hardly anyone, had better ask their selves that question. Am I coming to the full knowledge of God? Do I really know him? I mean REALLY know him! Is He my heavenly Father or just someone I&#8217;ve always been told about? Lord, help me to strive to be REAL in your sight! After all, in the end Lord, your the only one that really counts. Daddy, thank you for speaking perfect truth! I Love You!!!!!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Basic Rules For Worship Leaders by Autism Symptoms</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/christian-basics/basic-rules-for-worship-leaders#comment-694</link>
		<dc:creator>Autism Symptoms</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Aug 2010 03:50:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Terrific work! This is the type of information that should be shared around the web. Shame on the search engines for not positioning this post higher!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Terrific work! This is the type of information that should be shared around the web. Shame on the search engines for not positioning this post higher!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Basic Rules For Worship Leaders by XtremeNO Review</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/christian-basics/basic-rules-for-worship-leaders#comment-683</link>
		<dc:creator>XtremeNO Review</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 08:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi there friend! Considering that I&#039;ve invested a bit of time in the previous hour-ish perusing through your blog articles, I figured I might drop a brief note in your post comments to say good day. I&#039;m continually amazed at the level of quality of blog commentary that I can easily discover on the web by smacking the &quot;I&#039;m Feeling Lucky&quot; button on Google! That&#039;s pretty much all from my end, I hope you have an excellent summer!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi there friend! Considering that I&#8217;ve invested a bit of time in the previous hour-ish perusing through your blog articles, I figured I might drop a brief note in your post comments to say good day. I&#8217;m continually amazed at the level of quality of blog commentary that I can easily discover on the web by smacking the &#8220;I&#8217;m Feeling Lucky&#8221; button on Google! That&#8217;s pretty much all from my end, I hope you have an excellent summer!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Basic Rules For Men In Marriage by Morph Muscle Builder</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/family/basic-rules-for-men-in-marriage#comment-681</link>
		<dc:creator>Morph Muscle Builder</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 21:15:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I always have a tendency to ponder a little harder about all sorts of stuff soon after I read through someone new&#039;s weblog and their remarks. There sure is some excellent mind food weblogs out there and I feel like I just had a nice helping here reading through your articles. I ended up on here right after finishing up some stuff for work on Google and somehow came across your blog. Had a breeze reading through your posts and I&#039;ll be adding you to my RSS reader to keep track down the road. Bye!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always have a tendency to ponder a little harder about all sorts of stuff soon after I read through someone new&#8217;s weblog and their remarks. There sure is some excellent mind food weblogs out there and I feel like I just had a nice helping here reading through your articles. I ended up on here right after finishing up some stuff for work on Google and somehow came across your blog. Had a breeze reading through your posts and I&#8217;ll be adding you to my RSS reader to keep track down the road. Bye!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Podcast #06 &#8211; &#8220;It&#8217;s Me&#8221; by sitcom fan</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/podcast/podcast-06-its-me#comment-680</link>
		<dc:creator>sitcom fan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 20:11:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amazing post thanks!

Sent from my Android phone</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amazing post thanks!</p>
<p>Sent from my Android phone</p>
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		<title>Comment on Podcast #08 &#8211; &#8220;Horned Sheepwolf&#8221; by Trinette</title>
		<link>http://www.itsdaybyday.com/podcast/podcast-08-horned-sheepwolf#comment-679</link>
		<dc:creator>Trinette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 04:42:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow! This example is right on target! It is the perfect way to explain what&#039;s happening in so many churches and ministries today. All those cattle running to the slaughter, and a whole world running to the slaughter. Right for a cliff that drops off into the pit of hell. Why? Because the word &quot;SIN&quot; is hardly preached in the church anymore, and that says it all!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow! This example is right on target! It is the perfect way to explain what&#8217;s happening in so many churches and ministries today. All those cattle running to the slaughter, and a whole world running to the slaughter. Right for a cliff that drops off into the pit of hell. Why? Because the word &#8220;SIN&#8221; is hardly preached in the church anymore, and that says it all!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Podcast #03 – “Fork” by Z1 guy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Z1 guy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 01:58:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great detailed info, I just saved you on my google reader.

Sent via Blackberry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great detailed info, I just saved you on my google reader.</p>
<p>Sent via Blackberry</p>
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